How To Choose Lingerie as a Gift (Without Guessing Wrong)
Buying lingerie as a gift can feel risky — especially when you're unsure about sizing.
The good news is that many of our customers buy gifts successfully every day, and we're here to help make it easy.
Step 1 — Check What They Already Wear
The safest starting point is to look at:
✔ A bra they wear regularly
✔ A lingerie label
✔ Previous purchases
You're looking for:
Band size (e.g. 34, 36, 38)
Cup size (e.g. B, C, D)
If you're unsure, don't worry — there are still safe options.

Step 2 — Choose Stretch-Friendly Styles
Some products are naturally more forgiving than others.
These are ideal gift choices:
✔ Bodystockings
✔ Stretch lingerie sets
✔ Adjustable corsets
✔ Shapewear with stretch panels
These styles allow flexibility in fit.
Step 3 — Check Their Clothing Size and Brand
If you can’t find lingerie sizing, their usual clothing size can still be very helpful.
Look at:
- Dresses
- Tops
- Bodysuits
- Nightwear
You’re looking for:
✔ Their clothing size
✔ The brand name
For example:
Size 12 — Next
Size M — Marks & Spencer
Size L — ASOS
Then Look Up That Brand’s Size Guide
Most clothing brands publish their measurements online.
Search: Brand name + size guide
Example: “Marks & Spencer size guide”
You’ll usually find:
- Bust measurement
- Waist measurement
- Hip measurement
This gives you a much clearer idea of their body measurements — even if you don’t know their lingerie size.
Helpful Tip
If you’re unsure between two sizes:
Choosing the larger size is usually safer.
Many stretch-friendly styles are forgiving and adjust to fit comfortably.
Step 4 — Ask Us Before Ordering
Many customers email us or speak to us via our live chat before buying.
We’re happy to help.
Just send:
- Their clothing size
- Height (if known)
- Body shape (if known)
We’ll suggest the safest options.


